I first wrote the joys of being single part 1 over a year ago and believe me my dating life hasn’t got any better. I am a sex blogger who isn’t having any sex (a blog post about exactly that is coming soon) so a few months ago I joined okcupid in the hope that I would actually start dating. Nothing has come from it, I’ve spoken to a few guys on there then they just disappeared, I’m even proactive and message guys first but still get no replies. This does not help my mental state as I already feel unfuckable and unloveable.
If I’m honest the most fun I’ve had with this particular dating site is answering the questions that it matches people on. I was urged to join this site because with every question it asks it gives a space for people to explain their answers which apparently makes it better to find your “perfect match”.
Here’s is an example of the questions.
Would you consider sleeping with someone on the first date?
What’s your opinion of the phrase “making love” when it refers to sex?
Is it okay for a woman to talk openly about her sexual exploits?
Are you more horny or more lonely?
How does the thought of someone masturbating with you in mind make you feel?
I’m not sure why I thought there would be a better caliber of men on okcupid compared to Tinder and POF but believe me after some of the messages I’ve received on there I’m not sure I want to try and find a boyfriend or even just a date by online dating methods.