This post is essentially just me thinking out loud, trying to work out my thoughts and eventually getting annoyed with myself.
Men can have sex without feelings, women always form an emotional attachment to the men they have sex with.
A sweeping generalisation I know but there is some scientific fact behind it apparently. I guess its essentially evolutionary, men need to sleep with as many women as possible to spread their seed. Saying that I do know plenty of women who say they can have sex and not get emotionally attached, whether this is true or not, only they know this.
I have never had sex with a guy I wasn’t in a relationship with or who I didn’t want a relationship with.
I don’t know how to have sex without being emotionally attached to the guy.
There’s this guy, I’m 99.9% sure he wants just a sexual relationship with me, I’m very ok with this because I just want to have sex with him too but I’m scared once I do I will fall for him. I don’t want to fall for him. I want to just be able to have a great time and not eventually get hurt.
I know how I am though, I get ridiculously attached to guys even when I know it will be bad for me (see all the Hobbit Boy posts)
How do I stop myself getting attached?
How do I learn to have sex like a man?
Christ! What is wrong with me? I wish I wasn’t such a worrier sometimes, I haven’t even met him yet and I’m thinking about all the things that could go wrong. I really need to get a grip, relax and go with the flow.